Flan that panned out

Not sure if I should post this here or on my new baking site, I think this recipe warrants a mention here.*

In need of a birthday flan that was dairy free, I found a great recipe on two web sites, crum boss's filling and an easy sponge cake recipe which both took well to subsitutions and gave a nice flan..
(corn free because it is difficult to find organic corn products and I shy away from the new industrial corn).
I almost had a meltdown when flan was requested and I was told the birthday guest couldn't tolerate butter.. but it was easy, bake a sponge cake bottom in a torte shell, cut and indent and fill the top with custard, top with fresh fruit and maybe glaze with gelatin or jello (I skipped the glaze because it was going to be eaten within two hours and the fruits I chose weren't going to brown with air, and I didn't have time!)

Cake - cook at 350 farenheit for 20-25 minutes or until spring back/spongy to the touch

1 cup white sugar

1/2 cup coconut butter

2 eggs

2 teaspoons vanilla extract

1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour

1 3/4 teaspoons baking powder

1/2 cup almond milk

The filling - dairy and corn free with my subsitutions:

2 cups almond milk (bring to boil in a separate pot, and whisk together the following)
  3 large eggs  (2 whole, 1 yolk, beaten)
  1/2 cup sugar
  1/4 flour
3 tablespoons coconut butter
1 tablespoon vanilla and /or lemon flavouring or other

Bring the milk and a small portion of the sugar to the boiling point,
then add some to the egg/sugar/flour to temper (which is to bring the mix to the warmer temp)
then pour it all back into the milk pot
and heat and whisk to boiling point to thicken.
Add vanilla and/or lemon flavouring.
Let cool immediately after adding flavours.

*now, because I didn't know if the almond milk and flour would thicken (as whole milk and cornstarch thicken together), I practiced giving thanks for my food. The christian naturopath reminded me that all food is from God and to give thanks, and the store clerk who barely spoke English randomly told me a story of her todler holding his arms up to heaven to say amen and give thanks after every meal. So in my suspense I gave thanks for the flan, and the mixture began to thicken nicely .. and the flan was absolutely delicious.


When the filling is cool, cover the cake bottom.
Garnish with fruit such as grapes cut in half, kiwi and orange slices, and some bright strawberries and what you like. (Any bananas or apples you might want to add are fine but will need to be brushed with gelatin or lemon to keep from browning.)


ciao.. dinner is ready

How to Meet and Pray with Friends and Children

Still the question remains.. how does a new parent transition from church and bible study and prayer meetings to keep that aspect of life and incorporate it into parenthood?
Jesus didn't assign an apostle to wear a clown nose and take the children aside while he was speaking.
The children wanted to be close to him too and be with their parents to take care of them.

Meeting Format (open to change!)

There is no fixed agenda, just a generic order of:
-prayer to open,
-biblical reading(s),
-discussion of reading (personal impressions, personal experience..)
-prayer on topics raised by the reading or in discussion or in participant's hearts,
-prayer to close

This order can change. Sometimes an important topic comes up, or someone needs prayer or to share a matter of deep concern for support and guidance, or a prayer need is brought forward, or a reading needs more time than usual; the meeting can change its focus and resume the usual format in normal times. There may be one chairperson to open the meeting, or not. When all participants are present for the right reasons it goes so well. Sometimes someone needs a bit more attention for a bit, that's ok too.

Sounds a bit weak in a world that needs strong chairpersons or facilitators? That is because this is a place that really leans on God as the chairperson, the defender, the one who is really in charge. So rarely do we let go. Where else than in a place where each person seeks God can we anticipate and let God lead, if only to practice not being personally in charge for a moment in the day.

Foundation

Hi and thank you for dropping by!

Some basic foundations for Bibles n Babies:
These meetings provide an opportunity to get together with other parents in person or online, to attend and participate in prayer and bible study meetings, with our babies in tow.

-Interdenominational
-Respect for everyone's point of view
-Prayer in Jesus' name
-Bring your own Bible to read from
-Bring forward a biblical text to read and discuss
-Participants can speak on how the text or topic touches their spirit
-Led by seeking God's counsel

These are just to start and may be discussed and prayerfully tweaked, of course.

Looking forward to hearing from you!